"Because we are constantly exposed to the worlds definition of greatness it is understandable that we might make comparisons what we are and what others are- or seem to be- and also between what we have and what others have. We often allow unfair and improper comparisons to destroy our happiness when they cause us to feel unfulfilled, inadequate or unsuccessful. Because of these fellings we are led into error and dwell on our failures while ignoring aspects of our lives that may contain elements of TRUE GREATNESS." Howard W. Hunter
I especially see in the younger generation this kind of comparing going on. I have to admit that I did the same thing when I was a young mother. Now that I'm older and raised my kids I can say that a lot of time was wasted that could have been spent on developing the talents that I had. Reading more and watching less T.V. When my husband and I started reading The Book Of Mormon with our kids, I noticed that I was more focused on the things that were real important to me and my family more than I was comparing how I was measuring up to my peers. In todays world having a NEW home right after marriage and a NEW car with all the bells and whistles is the standadrd. Well look where it got the majority of those young marrieds! Mortgages they could not afford and debt they can't pay back. We are ALL OVER the mortgages companies for giving out ridiculous home loans and yet who signed for those loans? It's time to get real and go back to the old fashion way of Planning, Setting Goals, Saving and LIVING WITHIN OUR MEANS. Have we checked our lamps lately? How full are they? We will not be able to borrow from someone else when the time comes. Will we be invited to the feast?
Let's help each other by being more humble with what we may have. And if money is no problem for you, help someone else.
If you are struggling and find yourself in the trap of comparing yourself to someone else, think about this..."GREATNESS is best measured by how well an individual responds to the happenings in life that appear to be totally unfair, unreasonable, and undeserved." Marvin J. Ashton
I have had my share (actually I think more than my share) of ups and downs. Nothing has ever come easy for me. I've gone without, robbed Peter to pay Paul, and have paid cash for everything my family has, except our house, Duh! The one thing I have learned from it all is this..... If you serve others (that's a biggie) and treat others with love and compassion....you will have greatness in your life!
